Tyan's Photoblog
Finally
Posted by tyan (Singapore, Singapore) on 26 October 2007 in People & Portrait.
Ian hasnt fully shrug off the sick bug yet and these days,he has been super clingy(and i mean super) and hard to put to sleep.
I took Caleb out yesterday for a little walk while hub stays home with Ian and he cried a whole hour i was away.(Or so hub says,maybe in an attempt to make me never leave him alone with ian again,lol)
He cries the moment i put him down and even when apparently asleep.
As for me,i am in a i-dont-feel-like-doing-anything kind of mood. But once the kids are taking their nap,i just sort of mechanically start doing the housechores,cooking,washing,cleaning, and a part of me wishing there is an adult i can talk to,maybe a sandbag for me to bash and hit to vent off the frustrations of taking care of 2 very young kids,clean,wash,cook,dry,iron and try to look sexy when hub comes home.
Oh well. Its the weekend,chin up like what Uncle Billy says. Weekend is work for me cos i pack the kids to my mom's place and give tuition to earn some supplement.
Chin up.
Drowning.
Chin up.
Drowning.
Shutterbug from Chennai, India
what a beautiful sight! tyan, really love this pic. hope he gets well soon and becomes less clingy, if cling he must! :) CHIN UP!
26 Oct 2007 10:28am
Lorraine from Gatineau, Canada
You need a long rest and you deserve to be spoiled silly, hope it happens soon sweety! Lovely photo :)
26 Oct 2007 10:48am
Viewfinder from Bradenton, United States
Beautiful picture. But now I'm putting off my photographer hat and putting on my pastor hat. I am hoping most of what you wrote is partly in jest, otherwise I'd be worried about you tyan. If it is as bad as you describe, maybe talking with hub and then both talking with someone (like a pastor or wise, trusted friend) would help clear the air and prevent lots of "stuff" from building up. It's the backlog of unresolved "stuff" that can hurt a healthy relationship.
26 Oct 2007 11:25am
ally (: from Singapore, Singapore
aww, they're so cute when they're asleep... anyways, do take care okay? =x you sound like you're going through an emo stage. don't stress out too much!
26 Oct 2007 11:41am
Mandy from South Africa
This is such a beautiful picture of your lovely little sleeping Ian.... if only they did it more often hey?? hahaha. Hang in there dear friend the days of constant nurturing will soon fade and then you will be wondering where all the time has gone. Try to keep your chin up......but as VF says maybe just speaking to some one will lift the load a little bit. I hope you get a bit of rest while the kids are away this weekend...take some me time in between lectures and you will feel 100% better! I'm praying for you sweet friend! :)
26 Oct 2007 1:13pm
Rabbit from Richmond, United States
Super SHOT! so sweet for now, while theres no not feeling good crying going on... I can't wait for them to be better & you too! It is hard to do it all. Remember to try and grab a moment for yourself - and enjoy it dont feel guilty, you deserve it!
26 Oct 2007 3:20pm
Nancy Goh from Singapore
*hugz* You have been doing well taking care of the kids. :)
Must also take care of ur own sanity...take time off from the kids whenever u can.
26 Oct 2007 4:51pm
MaryB from Staffordshire, United Kingdom
Awww! bless you hun! you are truly blessed (even though you are finding it tough atm) with two beautiful boys. I've been where you are tyan, and it's not fun, but there is light at the end of the tunnel
A beautiful picture of a peaceful Ian :)
27 Oct 2007 12:23am
Rebecca from Leicester, United Kingdom
Dearest babe, this is yet another absolutely beautiful photo of dearest Ian!! Love it!! Must say I heartily agree with our dear friends here. You do have a beautiful and blessed family, and, as Lorraine says, you do indeed need a VERY good rest, and you do indeed need to be spoiled silly!! Everybody needs a good break sometime. You’re human and you need it!! None of us can keep going like this forever. Even if we don’t break down physically, spiritually, mentally and emotionally we will be completely worn out if there’s no support, relief and regular refreshment. You’ve heard this from me before. ...I don’t want to become a nag about this, but dearest babe, please do everything you need to find this rest and refreshment, even if it means a little family holiday, no need to be far or fancy or expensive, as long as you all can get away someplace and chill out for awhile, sometime not too far in the distant future, ok? Please, dearest babe. You need it, and you deserve it! Much *hugs* again, dearest one!!
27 Oct 2007 1:43am
e. from Washington DC, United States
Awww he's so cute and peaceful! It makes me want to hug him. :)
29 Oct 2007 4:38pm
Seraphine from San Francisco, United States
Beautiful photo, beautiful baby.
The colors above his head look
like happy dreams.
29 Oct 2007 9:45pm
